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Lukewarmness: A “Wishy-Washy” Attitude Towards Faith in God

I remember it was “Opus Dei” (a catholic lay and clerical organization which literally means “Work of God”) which taught me about lukewarmness, on how it can serve as a stumbling block in one’s spiritual growth. This is one of the many things I’ve learned from the formation and “circles” in the said lay organization. The first time I came to know about Opus Dei was after college. I was a newly hired young professional working with one of the country’s economic managers and a direct boss who happened to be an affiliate member of the Opus Dei. And that’s where my association with the “work” started. The weekly visits to the center for female young professionals (because there’s a separate center for males) became frequent for spiritual readings, recollections and about getting to know the “work” itself. (Gosh, I need to do a separate blog for this since it would entail hundreds of thousands of words to put everything down in black and white on how I came to know about the work and the opportunities of meeting new amazing friends who have lived the norms of piety, on how they became closer to God even “in the midst of the world”.)

Previously, I thought being a Catholic Christian is all about going to Mass on Sundays and Holy Days of obligations, receiving the Holy Communion, going to Confession and other Church related activities. I thought it was perfectly good. I know from my previous religion classes that there are so called spiritual and corporal works of mercy for us to practice. But the relevance of these works and the importance of being in the presence of God in everything we do didn’t fully sink in me until I met the work of God. I realized I needed to do much more, to be more faithful, closer and obedient to God, however, it was extremely hard – there were so many hurdles and impediments particularly in a world where temptations abound.

Yes lukewarmness, what is it about, how and why is it dangerous to our faith journey? For some of us, we don’t even know that the word exists in the Scriptures. Perhaps, we would normally refer this word when referring to “lukewarm water”, something that is neither hot nor cold to ease our throat especially when we we have colds! But nah, God’s words on lukewarmness in the Scriptures are primarily meant to impart us a powerful and strong message for us to be careful in embracing a lukewarm attitude and to avoid facing the consequences of such actions in the end, to wit:

“I know your works; I know that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either cold or hot. So, because you are lukewarm, neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth.” – Revelation

Lukewarmness as defined in the Catechism of the Catholic Church is a “hesitation or negligence in responding to divine love; it can imply refusal to give oneself over to the prompting of charity”.

As a catholic, there are certain duties and obligations that we have to follow and it forms part of our catholic faith. As such, we can’t be selective of the things we want and reject those we don’t want, as if we are in a cafeteria choosing the food that we prefer to eat. Tepidity or lukewarmness (in big and small things) serves as one of the roadblocks that keeps us from following Jesus Christ and from deepening our relationship with Him. During the pandemic for instance, one classic example of lukewarmness could be the decision not to hear mass everyday (even if majority of us were stationed in the comfort of our homes due to quarantine) or on Sundays or Holy Days of obligation in favor of pleasure and false joys, i.e., without valid reasons. We tend to have a “wishy-washy attitude” on this. Some of us would prefer to go shopping online or watch netflix and binge on videos on Youtube for hoursssss, or perhaps some of us are engrossed in commenting, criticizing and whining on social media on current events, instead of a 30-minute daily mass on tv or an hour of a Sunday Mass online! Are we guilty of this? We (young and old alike) may have tepidness in our journey to embracing the true meaning of our Catholic Christian faith but the courage to overcome such tepidity or laziness in fulfilling our duties and obligations as Christians is of great import to and is valuable in God’s eyes.

The issue on lukewarmness is likewise relevant in today’s world where the Church and its community are currently faced with controversial issues (e.g. abortion -reproductive health act, death penalty, and other moral issues). Apparently, the said issues are not problems of the church hierarchy alone but it is also a challenge posed to all of us, the members of the “Church”. It is unfortunate that whenever the church is being bombarded with issues in a not-so-nice manner, at times the “Church” or us Christians appear divided on how to address the said issues. We may have some brothers and sisters in Christ who seemingly have acquired a liberal and highly socialized modern stance on the said issues, and that some of us may still be in a quandary on whether or not to heed God’s word and the Church teachings. And this is a case in point where our faith is being put to a test. As part of the congregation and a genuine member of the church, it is our duty to stand up, defend and respond to the said issues, in line with God’s commandments and the Church teachings. We can’t be “cafeteria” or “lifeless” Catholics who do not want to get involved. We have to have a stand, so we wouldn’t be remiss in our duties as Christians. But certainly, it may not also be prudent to pass judgment on a certain person’s unfortunate situation and whatever position he/she has taken, only God knows, right?

What if the following question is posed to us now, what would be your response on the subject issues?: “Are you spiritually hot, cold or lukewarm?”

Pope Francis, in one of the masses he officiated in the Vatican, stated that “Lukewarm Christians are those who want to build a church to their own specifications, but it is not the Church of Jesus. They walk only in the presence of common sense, common sense….that worldly prudence.” He also said that it would be better to be “annoying” and “a nuisance” than lukewarm in proclaiming Jesus Christ. In his December 2019 homily at Mass in the Casa Santa Marta, the Holy Father describes two attitudes of lukewarm Christians – those who puts “God in a corner” and those who “wash their hands of Him”. The Pope called these attitudes “dangerous” because they are “like challenging God”. He further stated just imagine “what would happen if the Lord put us in a corner”? We would never enter Paradise. And what would happen if the Lord washed His hands of us? Poor us…

Therefore, in our daily struggles to overcoming temptations and avoiding sin, there should be no room for lukewarmness in our spiritual life, particularly during this pandemic. Some of us may say this: Oh, that’s easier said than done. I agree. Drawing closer to Jesus is no easy task. It requires a lot of sacrifice on our part. The world of consumerism, materialism, excessive comfort, egoism and other self-centered attitudes are allies of lukewarmness which pose hindrance to our becoming good disciples of Christ. But if we have the willingness and determination to follow the will of God, and with humility and charity coupled with a fervent prayer and guidance from the Holy Spirit, we may be able to fight lukewarmness even if it is extremely difficult because as Pope Francis said, it will surely “make straight the path of the Lord who is coming”.

In conclusion, I wish and pray that during this pandemic, may God bless us all with a humble heart and a “common sense”, a common sense that is in accord with God’s will. May God remind and wake us up when we feel the symptoms of being wishy-washy in our faith, when we opt to embrace lukewarmness. May He replace our lukewarm wavering faith with true, brave and courageous one; so that He’ll set us aflame again with the fire of His love. Amen.

One response to “Lukewarmness: A “Wishy-Washy” Attitude Towards Faith in God”

  1. Kristofer says:

    Hello, Thank you for this article. This reminds me once again of my Christian obligation. You see, When you are trying hard to earn a living and struggling, at times we tend to focus on our work (working hard for it until we get it), forgetting about what God can do and offer to us instead. But my faith in God has not died at all, but there are times my mind and eyes slip from Him. I need to pray more.

    Thanks, Kristofer